I hate when motherfuckers say stupid shit like Holding a Grudge is like letting someone live rent free in your head. Let me explain that it has some truth to it. Yea, you shouldn’t sit around and ponder what you have a grudge about. It’s a waste of mental space.
But if a motherfucker did you wrong, hurt you, or a loved one then you don’t have to forgive them, just don’t forget it. Ya see, people use the concept of grudges and manipulate you with them. For instance, if someone killed your mom you’ll be stupid if you “Let that grudge loose”.
People love ro misuse you and say shit like “You still holding a grudge because of that?” That simple statement makes one feel small and petty so we accept it only to relive the pain someone brought us through. It’s a sad day when hurt and pain gets a pass, but forgiven over that same hurt and pain is accepted.
In America, we live in a passive society. That’s why politics and the media can pull a fast one on us. They subliminally teach us that passiveness so they can continue their wickedness.
Is it cool to hold a grudge?
You damn right it is! Someone do you wrong, cause you pain, never forget that! You can release the hurt and pain, but don’t forget. And if you grown you should know that people don’t change, they’re stuck in their ways. Hurt you once, and they’ll hurt you again. Such strong decisions is what separates the adult from the child. Because if you don’t “hold a grudge”. That’s a green light to continue the pain one has given you.
Be strong, don’t allow for a second a human to get over on you. Some people need to be taught on how to treat an individual. When you stand strong, respect if achieved. And then, you won’t have a reason to hold a grudge!